Wednesday, December 07, 2005
Is being loved the same as loving someone?
NOPE.
They are on opposite ends of the spectrum. Answered this a year ago. Shall answer it again.
When u love someone, every single little teeny weeny thing he does affects you and your mood. He need not do anything very special because there is no need to. He is already special enough. You would go thru loads for him. Why? Well, sometimes cos he wants you to. Other times? Cos u THINK he MIGHT want you to change. You would do anything.
And when someone loves you? Well, sometimes it can get irritating. Things he does, as much as they may seem like the sweetest things on earth, have absolutely no effect on you. Change for him? Bah... Forget it.
Hope that was good enough answer my dearie.
A year ago, someone asked. Would u rather love or be loved? I answered: To Love.
A year later, i've been through a lot. Been hurt. But my answer remains the same. To Love.
Yeah... Yeesh's pretty stubborn. Call her anal if you want to. That's just the way she is. Rather to have loved and hurt than to not have loved at all.
YYY